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Therese & Rick Curotto: A Heavenly Match

September 26, 2023

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Therese, an artist, and Rick, a lawyer, were following different paths, but when they met, it was a joining of hearts, minds, and faith.

Rick is a local boy, born in Millbrae and a graduate of Burlingame High. He chose to attend the University of San Francisco. “It’s a Jesuit school,” says Rick. “I thought, these guys have been in the education business for over 450 years. They must know what they’re doing!” He’d had offers from many schools, including Stanford, but he was ready for city life. After graduating USF with honors, he attended USF School of Law. “I decided in the 7th grade I wanted to be a lawyer,” says Rick. After a two-year stint in the army, Rick began his 35-year law career specializing in real estate law and working with large NYSE listed companies. “I had a very nice career” says Rick.

Born in Santa Monica, Therese had also chosen her career early. “I probably started painting when I was 7 years old,” says Therese. Her father was an illustrator working for Walt Disney, Warner Bros., and Paramount. Art was always part of her life, but she was also fascinated by medicine and attended nursing school. Unfortunately, she had to leave school to care for her ailing mother. Then, at just 18, Therese got married. “Probably too young,” she recalls and doesn’t like to talk about it. But she had her son Geoff and then adopted a baby named Michael but sadly he wasn’t well and passed away young. Therese tried to go back to school, but as a single parent, it was too difficult.

Therese was living in San Diego, working for Pacific Southwest Airlines (PSA), and received good pay and benefits, especially for a woman at that time. She started in reservations and worked her way up to supervisor, then to operations. “I was a troubleshooter, helping people with their problems and I love people.” Therese then had to move to Oregon, but it was an unhappy time.

Theresa’s voice quavers just a little when she says, “And then, my fate turned. I met my husband. As of December, we’ve been married for 40 years.” Rick teases, “She’s waiting for her medal.”

Both Rick’s profession and Therese’s art played a role in bringing them together. He was visiting a corporate client and Therese was working on the switchboard in the lobby. Rick asked about the art on display and learned it was hers. They got to talking and had a lot in common. Both had been married before, had grown children, and had a strong faith. “We’re both devout Catholics,” says Therese. Soon they were married and living in the Bay Area.

“I went back to school to study art!” says Therese. She attended the Academy of Art and Rick, a busy lawyer, would pick her up after school. “I was going to school with all these hippies, and I was like 45 years old,” laughs Therese. The school had a big contest and Rick encouraged her to enter. “And guess what?” asks Therese, “I won!” The award was to have her work displayed in Governor George Deukmejian’s San Francisco office.

Rick, who has stayed involved with USF, brought Therese into the family-like organization. “He was a Trustee of USF for 18 years,” says Therese. “He was their right-hand man and I’ve always been so proud of that.” Therese began creating art for their big fundraisers. “I wound up doing a 12-foot sports mural!” says Therese of the large piece that’s still on display in the University’s Koret Center, which Rick helped build. “Going to the University of San Francisco was the best decision I ever made, other than marrying my wife,” says Rick.

Therese works in all mediums – watercolor, acrylic, oil, textiles – and locally she is known as a liturgical artist. “My work has been in all the Catholic churches around here,” she says. This includes a silk banner she created and invited everyone in the congregation to paint a small section. “I think it’s special that people can look at that and know they contributed,” says Therese.

In the 1980s, Therese had a studio in Belmont’s Manor House, which the city rented to artists for a small fee. “I had a studio there for about 12 years. I started out in the hallway under a skylight, so I had to wear mittens in the winter,” laughs Therese. “Then little by little, somebody would leave, and I would move into their studio.” During that time, she was approached to participate in a pilot program for juvenile delinquents. “They would either come to my studio or I would go to juvenile hall. I did it for four years and it was very rewarding. They have a chance to do art but, in the meantime, you’re their friend.” For her work, Therese received a congressional award from Representative Jackie Speier.

Therese and Rick are still involved in the community. Rick is an active member in the Commonwealth Club, supports Broadway by the Bay, and they have been Giants season ticket holders for over 50 years.

Along with art, Therese is a gifted singer and has sung with Viva La Musica, performing in Prague, Vienna, and three times at Carnegie Hall. She also helps the nuns at Notre Dame run errands. Plus, they are proud parents. All three of Rick’s children are successful lawyers. Therese’s son is a high school music teacher in Oregon. And they have two beloved granddaughters.

They came to Sterling Court after another community felt too formal. Rick says they’re very happy renting their 2-bedroom, 2-bath apartment. They love the location and the chef. “The people here are so kind and sincere,” says Therese.

Asked if they had any parting thoughts, Therese says, “Lean on the Lord, always be kind, and never give up.” “Someone once told me,” Therese remembers, “‘What you do for others is your greatest reward.’” Words Rick and Therese have lived by.

Nina Delgadillo

August 28, 2023

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Nina Delgadillo, Sterling Court’s hairdresser extraordinaire, has operated her shop here for 9 years, but she’s spent a lifetime in the world of beauty.

Her story starts in Central America. Nina was born in Managua, Nicaragua, and when she was a child, her family moved to San José, Costa Rica, where Nina grew up. Her parents eventually sent her to Los Angeles to attend Immaculate Heart High School. She explains that “parents in Central America did that – sent their children abroad” if they could afford it.

Nina’s education at Immaculate Heart meant living with nuns in a convent alongside many other foreign students. The nuns were very strict, and Nina didn’t exactly enjoy it at first. “We did have dances where they invited boys, but the nuns were always watching,” she says with a laugh.

During high school, Nina began to think about her choices for a career. Her father had told her, “Study something where you can be your own boss.” She had an interest in hair and beauty, and followed it to Miami, where she enrolled in La France beauty school. She enjoyed the city and the program, which lasted two years.

Nina crisscrossed the United States, learning her craft from the masters at some of the country’s most prestigious beauty schools. After school in Miami, she attended Vidal Sassoon in Los Angeles and studied with Mark Traynor in New York.

Nina worked for a time as a hair model at trade shows, showing off the assorted hues of hair dye offered by Rayette – “I was the green hair girl!” she boasts.

She returned to Managua where she opened her own hair salon. She ran the shop for 4 years and was very successful, but after the Contra War broke out, Nina moved back to the United States, this time with her family. She started a salon on B Street in San Mateo and worked there for 20 years before coming to Sterling Court.

Nina has 2 daughters and 3 grandchildren. Her youngest daughter lives in Palos Verdes, near Los Angeles, while her eldest lives close by in Redwood Shores. They get together as a family every Sunday and enjoy quality time together.

Nina loves working at Sterling Court because the people are so friendly. Hairdressing is a social job, after all! “We’re their confidants,” she says. “It’s nice for them to have someone to talk to – and nice for me.”

Nina describes the atmosphere of her shop at Sterling Court as “very classic.” The salon received its own makeover last year including all new lighting and fresh paint. “The lighting is really important,” Nina adds.

Nina’s success in many cities across the continent is clearly a result of her caring personality. She sums it up best: “I thoroughly enjoy all my years with the wonderful people I’ve met – because I have met wonderful people. That’s the experience of being a hairdresser.”

Kitty’s Captivating California Chronicles

June 28, 2023

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Katherine “Kitty” Davis and her family enjoy a long and fascinating California history. She was born and raised in Sacramento where her family goes back four generations. She has three sisters all ten years apart. Kitty has been lucky enough to have a handful of unforgettable experiences with many unforgettable faces thus far in her life.

John Breuner, Kitty’s great grandfather, founded Breuners Home Furnishings during the California Gold Rush in the 1800s. For 150 years the company made beautiful furniture. One of the most notable projects was the state Capitol. Kitty remembers the pieces they made to be “absolutely beautiful and some of their best work.” She takes pride that it is still in place today.

During the summers Kitty often spent her time working at the store where she learned “the customer is always right,” but her fondest memories as a young girl were the pack trips she went on with her father and extended family through the Sierras. They would all pack up their horses and head for the mountains, spending weeks at a time in nature disconnected from city life. Kitty remarks, “the streams were flowing with fresh water and fish,” and she will never forget “how free she felt on horseback with her father.”

Kitty couldn’t spend a lifetime in nature; she had to go to school. At age 14 she went to Castilleja Boarding School in Palo Alto, where she stayed for a short time. “I really did not like it. I was so far from home and family activities like skiing and horseback riding.” She finished high school in Sacramento with childhood friends. “One of the highlights was I was able to see my crush, Gerard, more often.”

This is when Kitty started dating her neighbor, Gerard Davis. They later married and raised three beautiful daughters in Sacramento: Katherine, Melissa, and Jennifer. Katherine and Melissa live close by with their families in Menlo Park and Hillsborough, and Jennifer lives in La Jolla with her family. Between them Kitty has 9 grandchildren, ranging in age from 10-28 years old, who she is very proud of.

Kitty and Gerard were married 48 years when Gerard passed away, but in those 48 years they were blessed with many wonderful experiences together and as a family. From entertaining friends and family at their homes in Sacramento and Lake Tahoe to wonderful trips. The time at Lake Tahoe where they played loads of tennis, water skied, snow skied, and enjoyed boating and hiking holds a special place for Kitty. In those years Kitty also enjoyed being active with the Junior League of Sacramento and multiple other volunteer organizations while raising their daughters.

Another special memory is their friendship with the former governor of California and president, Ronald Reagan. During his time in Sacramento Reagan kept his horses at Kitty’s mother’s ranch in Roseville and as a result they would often ride together at the ranch. Between their friendship and Gerard’s twin sister, Mary, marrying future Supreme Court justice Anthony Kennedy, another Sacramento native, in 1963, Gerard and Kitty spent a lot of time in Washington D.C. throughout their marriage.

Among her many special life experiences was in 1983 when she had lunch with Queen Elizabeth II.

During the Queen’s visit to California, “Gerard and I had lunch with the Queen under the rotunda of the Sacramento Capitol.” Kitty remembers, “it was an unforgettable lunch catered by the Nut Tree” – a beloved California restaurant in the day. Later that afternoon they went aboard the beautiful HMY Britannia for dinner.

Kitty and Gerard loved their many years in Sacramento. Once their daughters married and moved away from Sacramento, they spent more time in San Francisco closer to their children and their growing families and attending the ballet and opera with friends. To this day, Kitty enjoys spending time in the city. When Gerard passed, Kitty moved from San Francisco to Palm Desert for about 15 years and enjoyed making many new friends and spending time with old friends.

Unfortunately, after suffering a stroke last summer, Kitty needed to once again move closer to her family and became a resident at Sterling Court. The family was happy to find Sterling Court. Everyone is so nice, she says. Kitty loves her patio at Sterling Court, enjoys the vocalist who performs, and is working on making some new friends. She shares, “my only wish is that it had a hot tub!” When she is not visiting Melissa at her beautiful flower shop, Penflora, on Howard Avenue, she is either watching Fox News or spending time with her three granddaughters and six grandsons. “Each one has a very special place in my heart,” she said.

Kitty is very grateful for the amazing life she lives and can’t wait to continue making lifelong memories.

Jim Novello: A Family Man in San Mateo

June 2, 2023

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Family is important to Jim Novello. A caring and hard-working man, Jim even has his son John join him for the interview. As we talk, Jim begins to weave the stories of this family’s rich tapestry.

The Novellos’ story starts in the Old World. Jim’s paternal grandparents, Salvatore and Josephine, came from Sicily and Italy. They booked passage on a ship that took them to New York in 1899 where they stayed with some friends before taking a train across the continent to San Francisco. They settled in North Beach, where many Italians resided and still do today. Sadly, their house was destroyed in the 1906 earthquake, but the resourceful Salvatore built a new house across town in 1907 – on bedrock this time! Jim’s father grew up there in a family of 13. Last year, Jim and family were actually able to walk through the house when it went on the market.

Jim was born in San Francisco at St. Mary’s Hospital in 1935. Though his father came from a large family, Jim was an only child. The family had a hardware store on Mission Street, and when Jim was five, they moved down to the Peninsula.

Here, Jim attended St. Catherine’s School in Burlingame and Serra High School. During high school, he started planning for a career in industrial work. He transferred to San Mateo High for the last two years, taking industrial education classes to prepare him for a career.

Jim’s first job after high school was at the telephone company. He was a switchman, and it was there that he first met Dianne Lee, who would one day become his wife. “We met on the telephone,” Jim says with a chuckle. Because of their jobs at the company, they would place calls to each other. This went on for a number of months until they finally met in person and began a relationship.

Jim was drafted into the army and stationed for two years at Fort Ord in nearby Monterey as part of the 41st Signal Battalion. During this time, Dianne lived at home with her parents in South San Francisco, as the two hadn’t married yet.

After his military service, Jim worked at the Bethlehem shipyards in San Francisco as a steamfitter. His coursework in mechanical drawing prepared him for the role and he enjoyed it, but eventually the shipyards were closed and the company’s operations moved to San Diego. This led to Jim’s next profession: driving a truck as a router for Zellerbach Paper. He was a Teamster and drove local routes to various destinations in California, including Monterey, Stockton, and Sacramento. “I was home every night,” he says. “I was very lucky.”

Jim and Dianne had three children together – two boys and a girl. Jim Jr. lives in Spokane, Washington, while Linda and John are still in the Bay Area.

Both parents volunteered extensively at St. Matthew’s, the children’s school. Among other pursuits, they ran the carnival. “I worked my way up to the top,” Jim laughs. He started by performing as a clown at the annual event and gradually took on more responsibility. Dianne ran the country store booth.

After retirement, Jim kept busy around the house and even worked for his friend’s chauffeuring service, driving clients, mostly seniors, to appointments and to visit family in San Francisco, Oakland, and beyond.

Dianne passed away in 1995, and Jim came to Sterling Court five years ago. He enjoys going for walks and listening to the live music. “It’s wonderful,” he says.

Last year Jim traced his roots on a trip to Italy. He visited St. Petronilla Church in Trabia, Sicily, where his grandparents had married. It was a moving experience to see the small, old building. Though the church was closed and they couldn’t go inside, Jim recalls the building’s exterior: “Stucco walls, a few steps. It hadn’t changed much.”

Jim already has plans for a trip next year to visit Ireland, where his mother’s family was from. “I don’t know as much about that side,” he says, but he says his mother talked often about County Cork. “So that’s where we’re going,” he says proudly.

Asked for some closing thoughts, Jim returns to his family. “I’ll say this – I never went to college. But all of my kids did.” Bravo, Jim!

Janet Bock: A Buckeye in the Golden State

May 2, 2023

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Janet Bock’s story begins in Ohio’s capital. No, not Columbus. Ohio’s first capital, a small city on the banks of the Scioto River, just south of Columbus, by the name of Chillicothe.

Her mother was a teacher, and her father was a landscape architect. She had a brother and a sister, and the family loved nothing more than to picnic and camp. Janet grew up immersed in nature, spending nearly all her free time exploring the pristine beauty of the wilderness both in Ohio and from coast to coast. “We went to every National Park,” she recalls.

She remembers how the family, sometimes with friends along, would start hiking in the morning and stop for a lunch of only watermelon. They would continue again until evening and then cook dinner. “It was so lovely,” she says.

Every summer in Chillicothe (pronounced CHIL-ih-KOTH-ee), there was, and still is, an annual theatrical production celebrating the history of the region, especially the Native Americans who have lived there for thousands of years. Chillicothe and the surrounding area are home to several earthen mounds built by indigenous civilizations of the past. Students would come to town to participate in the spectacle, and her father even did the landscaping for the production. Janet remembers it quite fondly.

After high school, Janet enrolled at The Ohio State University. “I’m a proud Buckeye,” she says with a chuckle. She attended nursing school there, knowing even during high school that she wanted to become a nurse.

She lived on 15th Avenue in Columbus while in college. This was a treat because the renowned Ohio State marching band would come down 15th during parades, giving Janet a front-row seat. Later, she moved into the nurses’ dormitory, right across the street from the hospital where she studied and worked.

Janet says she’s not exactly sure why she was drawn to nursing, saying that it simply “seemed like a worthwhile career.” After college, Janet wanted to continue her studies and earn a master’s degree. She stayed near Columbus for graduate school.

Nurses deal with a lot in their work. Janet recalls one particularly harrowing experience with two young men who came into the ward after severe diving accidents.

Janet married and had four kids: two girls and two boys. As a family they camped and spent time outdoors, just as she had done when she was a child. Her husband hadn’t grown up camping and was more inclined toward the mechanical world than the natural one. “He was into cars and cameras,” Janet says.

She remembers one instance where the family actually talked him into coming camping. They bought a canvas hammock with netting on the sides from a military surplus store. All was well until the nighttime when Janet’s husband was disturbed by the tail of a skunk tickling his back through the hammock! It was pretty difficult to convince him to come along after that, she says with a laugh.

Janet has been at Sterling Court for a year and a half. She fell some time ago, breaking her hip but thankfully not hurting her head. After surgery and recuperation, she eventually moved in here. She has two kids in the area, while the other two are also on the West Coast, in Seattle and Pasadena. Her grandkids are mostly grown, all working or attending college in various places.

Janet cherishes living at Sterling Court. Her birdfeeder brings hummingbirds to her balcony, and she loves spending time with fellow residents during meals. Asked for her closing thoughts, Janet remarks on how “wonderful everyone here at Sterling is.” A fitting thought from this caring person.

 

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